In my favorite poem by Robert Frost, Nothing Gold Can Stay, he reminds us that like the seasons of nature, life is one season melting into another, and quickly fading away. This is my attempt to document each season in my life and my family.

An Open Letter to My Husband

Filed under: Family, Photos — Rachel at 1:12 am on Friday, February 16, 2007

Dear Chris,
Six years. Can you believe it? Six years today we were exchanging vows and promising to love each other forever. Marrying you was the best thing I ever did. I was merely a girl when you married me, but I hope that I haven’t disappointed you. I want to be a good wife. I know I’m not everything you may have wanted in a wife, but I promise you that no one could ever love you more than I do.
It’s hard to believe that I have been with you since I was sixteen years old.There are so many memories that come flooding back when I think of the years we have spent together.
Do you remember that time that we were out fishing in your boat and it was so hot that we decided to jump in the river. We jumped in clothes and all. We were climbing up on that rusty old piling and jumping off. It was so fun.
And do you remember our first kiss? Sitting under the stars on the tailgate of your truck in my parents yard. I wasn’t expecting it, and you caught me by surprise.
Do you remember how we used to drive around in your truck forever. We would just drive and drive with no destination. Just talking about our future and how things would be when we were married.
Do you remember how you kept rubbing my forehead with your fingers when they delivered Kyra. You were so worried, and I remember how comforting it was to look over and see your eyes over your surgical mask. You’ve always been there for me. Right by my side.
I’ll never forget how you got teary-eyed during the ultrasound when we found out Elijah was a boy. You were so happy and so proud.
Do you remember how I looked walking down the aisle six years ago? I remember seeing you at the front of the church. You looked so handsome in your tux, and I remember the tears in your eyes. I was so happy and so proud that day, and I was so relieved that the day had finally came. It seemed like we had to wait so long.
Remember how no one thought we would last. With every anniversary that rolls around, I want to stick my tongue out at everyone. What did they know. Nothing. They knew nothing about us and what we have together.
It has all went by so fast. I have loved it all. Every moment was precious, even if I didn’t know it at the time. I look forward to the rest of our lives together, and can’t wait to make many more memories with you and our family.

I love you, Honey.
Rachel
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Comment by Heather

February 16, 2007 @ 10:32 am

Happy Anniversary!!! What a beautiful post & photo. Have a great day!

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Comment by Rachel

February 16, 2007 @ 11:32 am

Thanks, Heather. :)

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Comment by Di Di

February 16, 2007 @ 12:54 pm

Happy Anniversary to both of you. I LOVE you guys!

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Comment by Rachel

February 16, 2007 @ 1:26 pm

Thanks, Di Di! We love you, too.

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Comment by Misty

February 17, 2007 @ 10:33 am

hey sis, this made me cry, happy anniversary to my favorite sis in the whole world and to my brother-n-law that i love very much, thanks to both of you guys for always supporting Malachi and myself because it sure does feel good to last when people think you won’t doesn’t it.

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Comment by Rachel

February 18, 2007 @ 4:26 pm

Thanks, Misty.

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Comment by Luke

February 18, 2007 @ 4:39 pm

sis thats made me cry to its hard to beleive it has been six years i remember after you left lieing in bed crying myself to sleep cause my big sister married some big old guy i would wake up balling holler ing i want my sister back i was even contemplating suicide be cause we were apart it was like when you left my whole life went to hello because you were the only sane one in the house you left me here with all these crazy people but now every once and a while i get a little glimpse of hapiness when you grace me with your presence i will always love you even though you left me for some old hairy bald guy

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Comment by Rachel

February 18, 2007 @ 4:41 pm

Sorry, Luke. Sometimes you have to save yourself.

I love you, too, though.

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